from your parents

Brian,

Recently I found an old personality profile you did. It said that you don't have a need for prestige, status, or the approval of others. You tend to be objective, frank, and independent of the need for attention or recognition.You tend to be analytical and inner-directed. You were described as being supportive, tolerant, patient, calm, relaxed, predictable, consistent, reflective, and intellectual ( not bad!) Also it said that you were trusting, and enjoy interpersonal relationships that allow you to be of service to others. What more could a Dad want? For you a job well done is its own reward. So I know you don't need me to say it but we are thankful for you being who you are! I think Saint Francis of Assisi's prayer characterizes what you strive to be:

The Prayer of St Francis of Assisi

Lord, make me an instrument of your peace,
Where there is hatred, let me sow love;
where there is injury, pardon;
where there is doubt, faith;
where there is despair, hope;
where there is darkness, light;
where there is sadness, joy;
O Divine Master, grant that I may not so much seek to be consoled as to console;
to be understood as to understand;
to be loved as to love.
For it is in giving that we receive;
it is in pardoning that we are pardoned;
and it is in dying that we are born to eternal life.

Happy Birthday!
Love, Dad


Brian,

Wish we could be there for your birthday. I can't believe you are 26 and have a baby of your own. Can it be 10 years ago that we had your surprise 16th birthday party? We are so proud of you and all you have accomplished in such a short time. Give Joy and Lucy a hug and kiss for me. Hope you have a wonderful birthday!

Love,
Mom